Sunday, 28 December 2014

Life Feels A Little Disappointing


I am writing this on my Macbook Pro. It is a fabulous piece of kit. I use it every day for lots of different tasks and for three years it has, to use Apple’s own strap line, ‘just worked’.

The same applies to my car. A cheap Skoda Octavia. In ten years it has never broken down. The air conditioning unit has gone, but that’s my own fault for not servicing it properly.

In so many aspects of contemporary life things exist that make getting stuff done easier than ever before and yet I don’t know anyone who isn’t carting around with them a huge and often unspoken sense of disappointment with modern life. There is undoubtedly a certain aura of miserablism about the place.

From university students to the oldest and most experienced people I know, they all feel that their life is just a little less enjoyable than it should have been.

Given all the technical gadgets, scientific progress and the political advances which have clearly benefitted our times, why aren’t we all gliding through this life permanently gurning with the sheer cheer that this moment has bestowed upon us?

Because, it’s actually about the little things.

Almost every aspect of our personal lives have been interfered with by those who know, with an unnerving surety, exactly what we need to do, say, think and believe at any time and in any place, including within the walls of our own homes.

Of course we know that it is best for us if we don’t smoke tobacco, but to be told that you can never again have a cigarette and a pint in a pub after work makes life a little less enjoyable for everyone, not just the smoker. The atmosphere, the social element, the general bonhomie of a busy, convivial and conversation filled pub is removed and the place becomes a polite, clean and generally pleasant environment and so, in a wonderful exhibition of counter-intuitivity, many of us now choose not to "have a quick one" before heading home, but instead to trudge off early, feeling healthier and smelling fresher, but without the great story to tell or the new friendship to recall.

It is, after all, the little things.

And so it goes on, everywhere you turn; rules, interferences, policies………why are you forced to drive at 50mph on the M56 at 3am? There is nobody on the M56 at 3am. These non statutory, made up and utterly pointless ‘ad hoc’ speed limits have appeared across the UK Motorway network over recent years and are another example of our lives being surreptitiously governed by those we do not know, but who clearly believe that they know what is best for us.

It is the little things.

And these little things are making our lives a little more miserable than they need to be.





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